Motherhood is one of the greatest leadership callings God will ever give us.

And yet, so many moms feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or like they’re simply trying to survive each day. We spend so much time managing schedules, meeting needs, and putting out fires that we can lose sight of what matters most.

But friend, your influence (aka leadership) matters more than you know.

As Believers, we are all called to lead. Leadership is influence - and as salt and light – we should be making an impact in the lives of others. That is called leadership regardless of your title.

Carrying responsibility often leaves us wrestling with second-guessing, decision fatigue, and a quiet sense of unrest. We love God. We want to honor Him. We want to do the right thing for the right reason, yet, clarity feels elusive…

You cannot step confidently into God’s plan if you’re still battling lies that keep you stuck and second-guessing your calling. Whether you lead at work, in your home, at church, or in your community, your leadership rises or falls on what you believe—about God, about your purpose, and about yourself. But here’s the good news:

It starts in your mind. Before you take action… Before you influence anyone… Before you step boldly into God’s calling… Your thoughts either fuel your leadership or sabotage it. And most often? It’s not lack of skill, credentials, or opportunity that holds us back. It’s the quiet narratives we allow to run on autopilot in our minds.

Our family is walking through a difficult time where leaders have failed us. It is shocking and hurtful. So, we must all ask ourselves some hard questions about who we are and what we will do when given a chance to shrink back, lead soft, or to fail others? Here are 5 tips to stand firm and lead strong.